To make a man want you, you have to make him FEEL GOOD.
In other words, men like to be around what makes them feel better about themselves.
So the question becomes:
- Why Putting an Effort Into Your Appearance Will Get His Attention
When you put an effort into your appearance, it tells him that:
You respect yourself
You appreciate the importance of presentation
You have your unique style/look
You take care of yourself physically
He’s likely not going to be aware that it may have taken you an hour to do your hair and match a great outfit.
But all of your subtle efforts ADD UP and they communicate VOLUMES about your sense of self-worth and value.
He’ll want to be around you because it will make him feel good and if the moment feels right to you,
- How Getting His World Will Make Him Interested in Yours
This may come as a surprise, but we men LOVE to talk about ourselves. 😜
Blowing our own horns about how we’ve got it all figured out and are going to change the world for the better.
Now when I say ‘Get his world’, I’m not saying you should pamper his ego.
What I’m saying is, men love to feel acknowledged and received by women.
So it’s a great way to make a guy want you!
Next time you’re at a party or social event and he’s expressing his opinion on matters…
Him: “I think that if governments banned single-use plastics, there could be a huge decrease in negative environmental impact!”
You: “So you’re saying the government should take more action and restrict single-use plastics. That, that would really change a lot for the better.”
Him: “Exactly!”
Men LOVE it when a woman gets and acknowledges their point of view.
And get this, he’ll credit YOU for making him feel good.
- 3. Complimenting Him Will Make Him Remember You
Much like women, men enjoy compliments as well.
It’s, of course, important to not lay it on too thick, as that might seem disingenuous.
But since you’re reading this article, and want him to want you…
There are clearly things you already like about the guy, so it won’t be difficult to find something to compliment him about.
Whether it’s his sense of fashion, his interests or his taste in music, etc.
Pick something and let him know you appreciate that about him.
“Nice blazer, it really goes well with your tie.” or “That song you put on earlier, was awesome, what was it?” Your genuine compliment will validate him and make him feel good about himself.
Once again, he’ll associate the feeling and moment with YOU.
Also, if you happen to be in the early stages of getting to know him, a casual compliment can be a great ice-breaker.
- Men Love to Be Teased and Flirted With
When the moment feels right, you can signal your interest through teases and flirts.
Being playful is FUN for men!
And it lets him feel and know that you’re interested in him, which makes him feel DESIRED (good).
He’ll like that feeling and your attention.
An important benefit to note here is that when you’ve applied all the above-mentioned strategies and are THEN flirting with him…
It separates you from the pack and puts you ahead of potential competition.
6.When You’re Relaxed, You’ll Sooth Him
Another key ingredient in how to make a man want you is to relax.
Because men will feed off your energy.
To illustrate this: if you’re in a highly stressful state and are spending time with a guy you like, the way you make eye contact, smile, say things and laugh will communicate your underlying stress…
The guy you want to want you, will then start feeling stressed too.
And as we mentioned, men like being around women that make them feel good.
So if you stay in a stressful or negative state too long and don’t ease out of it, he’ll likely distance himself and be less interested because he won’t want to feel those feelings.
To be clear, it’s not about perfection.
But pick the time you spend with him when you’re feeling relaxed, your chill vibe and confidence; will totally sooth him and make him want you more.
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